Virtues Tree

It is that wonderful time of year again for the Baha’is, a time called Ayyam-i-Ha (pronounced: Ah-YAHM-ee-hah). It is a time for celebration, service, gift giving, generosity and fellowship.

This year we added a new tradition to our Ayyam-i-Ha celebrations: a Virtues Tree.

For 19 days before Ayyam-i-Ha begins the children pick a note, a leaf and a small gift (such as a sticker) out of our countdown calendar.

Each day, the note says something different. They are all related to the virtues, the spiritual qualities that we want our children to develop, and they ask the children to think of a time when they showed that virtue, write it down on their leaf and add it to the virtue tree.

For example:

“Ayyam-i-Ha is a time for generosity. Write down a time when you were generous and add your leaf to the tree.”

“Ayyam-i-Ha is a time for laughter. Write down a joke and add your leaf to the tree.”

“Ayyam-i-Ha is a time for creativity. Draw a picture on your leaf and add it to the tree.”

Some of the other virtues that we talked about were kindness, thankfulness, helpfulness, service, joy, patience, responsibility, unity, love, friendliness and gratitude.

First I drew an outline of a tree on a large piece of paper, taped it to the fridge and then had the children color it in.

Then we taped a leaf on to the tree each day.

Now we are celebrating out five days of Ayyam-i-Ha. These are some of the other activities that we do.

Happy Ayyam-i-Ha!

Happy Ayyam-i-Ha!

We LOVE Ayyam-i-Ha (pronounced: Ah-YAHM-ee-hah), a special time of year for the Baha’is where we show hospitality, service, generosity and thankfulness.

Juliet and I inherited the gorgeous Ayyam-i-Ha banners that my mother made about 25 years ago, and we divided them up. I don’t know how, but I lucked out with this 5 pocket Ayyam-i-Ha banner.

5-pocket-ayyamiha

Each day we put a small present inside the pocket along with a clue that leads them on a treasure hunt throughout the house toward another present in the end.

I just heard that when my brother-in-law, Shane, was growing up, his parents would put their clues underneath their pillows at night when they slept and so he would wake up at 4am and run through the house on his treasure hunt.

ayyamiha-banners-on-the-wal

And alongside the pocket banner was the Ayyam-i-Ha countdown calendar that I made last month. Juliet also made a beautiful Safari-theme calendar, since Olee is quite in love with animals.

Since I lucked out with the pocket banner, Juliet took to making a new one this year for herself. She is amazing.

juliets-banner

The top banner was one of my Mom’s. And all the ones that follow are my Mother’s amazing craftwork.

fellowship

love

unity

thankfulness-tree

“THANKFULNESS” tree

service-tree

“SERVICE” tree

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We also started a new tradition this year with a Thankfulness Tree and a Service Tree.

On the THANKFULNESS tree each day we write something that we’re thankful for on a leaf and tape it on.

And on the SERVICE tree we write down how we showed helpfulness to others that day.

This has been a wonderful exercise for the family, reminding us of our blessings and also being conscious of helping others.